Why Gaining New Salon Clients Isn’t Always the Solution to Your Problems

Why Gaining New Salon Clients Isn’t Always the Solution to Your Problems

My coaching clients are encouraged to ask me as many questions as they want to find a solution to their problems. Probably the top question I get asked is “How can I get more new clients?”. I must admit I find this question a little frustrating. Not because the salon wouldn’t benefit from new clients, but more so why they continuously need more new clients, above all else. The questions that flow into my mind when I hear this are: • What problem are you trying to solve by getting more new clients? • Are there better ways to solve this problem? Let’s explore these alternate questions a little more deeply. I’m going to make an assumption here. That assumption is that the problem that needs to be solved is actually a lack of profit rather than a lack of new clients. Not just more money in revenue, but the real profit that’s left over after you’ve paid expenses and yourself. The reason I’m making this assumption is that without profit there is no business growth. Without profit, your business cannot sustain itself. Without profit, it’s almost impossible to maintain personal enthusiasm and momentum which are the core elements required for success. So the actual problem isn’t really about getting more new clients, but about using a multitude of strategies that will create a more profitable business. Here’s what I usually find when I dig a little deeper into the situation… In the majority of cases, salons are way too focused on gaining new clients and not focused enough on keeping the clients they already have. When I review statistics for salon owners who ask me about new client attraction, what I see in nearly all cases is a steady and reasonable number of new clients who find the salon organically. These are often clients who either see the salon as they are passing by, or are sometimes referred by friends. The other thing I see is that they are losing clients as fast as they are gaining them, which of course is the real problem. My approach to solving the real problem of profit deficiency is always multi-pronged and generally, goes something like this… 1. Dramatically reduce the loss of your existing clients. There are multiple strategies you can implement to help you achieve this, but whatever can be done, must be done. 2. Increase your profit margin. This means either reducing the expense involved in providing your services or increase your prices (or both). 3. Find ways to sell more to each existing client. This can be achieved through up-selling services e.g. Basic facial to an advanced facial, add-on selling e.g. Selling additional services to each client or selling product. 4. Source new clients to replace those that leave. This is probably the most expensive step in the entire profit-generation process. 5. Reduce expenses. Particularly wages (which are often one of the highest and most overpaid expenses in any business). As you can see, in my opinion gaining new clients is only a small part of the real solution to the problem of how to increase profits. It’s number 4 on my list of 5, so I don’t actually consider it to be anywhere near the top in terms of priority. If you’re focusing on just gaining new clients constantly, you’re ignoring the real solution to your actual problem and therefore not investing your time and money in the right place. So, if you choose to constantly try to solve your profit problem by sourcing new clients, then I leave you to do so. However, if you want to really grow your business in a more sustainable and realistic way, you must think past simply gaining new clients and instead focus on gaining more profit.
Double Your Salon Profits Through Better Client Retention

Double Your Salon Profits Through Better Client Retention

Given the choice, most salon and spa owners will jump at the opportunity to learn how to attract more clients into their business.  After all, that’s how their salons will grow, right?

In fact, this isn’t the case at all for most salons I’ve worked with.

Each time I work with a new salon or spa owner, and I ask them what their business goals are, at least 90% tell me that getting new clients is at the top of their wish list. 

The fact is, that when we monitor the intake of new clients without any kind of promotional activity, we find there is generally good, and sometimes great, organic growth that required minimal effort or financial outlay.

This means that a lack of growth isn’t necessarily due to a lack of new clients; but it’s more likely to be caused by the inability to keep existing clients.  And if that’s the case, shouldn’t the top goal of every salon or spa owner be finding ways to keep the clients she already has, instead of constantly chasing new ones?

 

Perhaps so, but how do you achieve that?

Well, your clients are just like you and me.  When they come into your salon or spa, they want to be treated like a VIP – whether it’s their first, fifteenth or fiftieth visit.

When clients start to notice that their loyalty is being taken for granted, you risk losing them.  From this point on, the client can be stolen away from your salon quite easily by another salon that looks like it might have something better on offer.

Many business owners mistakenly believe that their clients will remain loyal to them forever because they never complain.  In fact, when clients do complain, it’s generally with their feet and without any forewarning at all.  And when this happens, there’s a good chance you’ve lost them for good.

You may think that clients leave because the salon down the road has newer equipment, cheaper prices, nicer walls or fluffier bed linen, but in fact, the majority of clients who leave, do so because your salon doesn’t make them feel unique and special anymore.  In short, they feel that they’re being taken for granted and it’s showing in the quality of their treatments and service.

As an example…

I was working with a struggling salon owner who wanted to improve her poor client retention rate.  I suggested that every treatment should begin with a short consultation to make sure she understood exactly what her clients wanted from her, and to ensure they didn’t have any issues after their last treatment.

This salon owner couldn’t believe that spending a few minutes of her time, making sure her client was going to be happy was worth the effort.  She didn’t see the necessity of ‘wasting’ her time this way when the client ‘always had the same thing every time she was in anyway’.

The rot had well and truly set in, but yet she couldn’t see the relationship between this and her client retention problems.

 

What are the benefits of increasing your salon client retention rate?

Research into client retention benefits shows that it’s substantially cheaper to keep an existing client happy (and thus returning), than to source a new one.  To add to that, existing clients are likely to spend more money during each visit to your salon. This comes from additional service and product purchases that happen once trust and rapport are established.

Also, the expenses involved in constantly sourcing new clients can end up costing your salon many thousands of dollars each year; all money that comes straight off your bottom line.  There’s no doubt that keeping your existing clients is a much more economical option.

However, this doesn’t happen by accident, but rather by design, and unfortunately, just being technically good at what you do is not enough by itself to keep your clients returning to you (although this is a very important aspect of client retention).

Once you understand this, you’ll realise that instead of continuously looking for ways to entice new clients into your salon, instead you really need to focus on ways to improve your existing clients’ experiences instead.

With this in mind, it’s very obvious that you must become more client-focused.  No longer should you ask yourself the question, ‘What do I want to offer my clients?’ but instead, ‘What will improve the client’s experience in my salon?’

Now, this may seem to be over-simplifying the secret to business success, but in fact, if you can stay focused on what your clients want and find ways to not only meet but exceed their expectation, your ability to retain your clients is going to dramatically improve.  And with that improvement will come greater retention and thus greater profits.

Every financially successful business operator understands that without clients who remain loyal, they are constantly chasing their tail and starting from scratch over and over again.

It’s only when clients remain with your salon and then new clients join their numbers and also remain, can you grow your business.  Clients retention in an important part of business growth and is 100% dependent on their satisfaction not only with the service that they receive but even more importantly with how they are treated.

The really good news is that changing your mindset around how to treat your clients costs you nothing.  Not one cent! The answer lies in the consistent attention to detail, the friendly welcome and farewell and the willingness to really listen to what they’re asking for.

So if your salon is constantly chasing new clients, you may want to stop for a minute to ask yourself why you need to keep doing that.  Why do you always need new clients, when if you could just hang on to the the clients you already have, your business and profits would soon be flourishing.

 

Super Simple Strategies to Keep Your Salon Clients Returning.

Super Simple Strategies to Keep Your Salon Clients Returning.

Clients disappear from your salon for all sorts of reasons.  Some things you can’t do anything about (like clients who move interstate or die), but other solutions, which can be incredibly simple, are often overlooked.

Replacing lost clients is actually one of the biggest expenses in any salon.  Did you know it costs at least 5 times more to get a new salon client than to keep an existing one?

If for no other reason (and there are plenty of other great reasons), retaining your existing clients should be very high on your list of ‘must do’ activities.

Here are some other very interesting facts about why existing clients are so much more valuable to your business.
• According to the authors of Leading on the Edge of Chaos, a 5% reduction in client loss, can result in much higher profits. Not just 5, 10, or even 20 % more, but a staggering 25 -125% increase.
• Research done by Gartner reveals that 80 percent of your salon’s future revenue will come from just 20% of your existing clients.
• Marketing Metrics states that the probability of selling to an existing client is 60-70%, whereas the probability of selling to a new client is only 5-20% (Source http://bit.ly/WAaE1x). That alone makes a significant difference in your ability to sell retail and additional or more premium services.

Clearly, there are lots of compelling reasons to keep existing clients returning to your salon, rather than constantly chasing new ones.

 

This leads us to the ‘how’ part of this article.

How to get your salon clients to stay without having to spend a fortune to do so is not as difficult, or expensive, as you may imagine.

In fact, there are many quite simple and cost-effective strategies that you can implement into your business in less than 30 days, that will substantially improve your client retention rate.

Let’s take a look at 3 of the major (but straight-forward) retention strategies that you can use…

Strategy #1

Treat your clients like you’re genuinely glad to see them.
This sounds ridiculously simple but is surprisingly often overlooked in favour of more technology based solutions.

To hit the nail on the head with this strategy, you can implement these key points:

  • Greet every client by name, and expect all of your team members do the same. It’s essential that all of your team understands that clients don’t belong to just one therapist. The client belongs to the salon, and therefore it’s the responsibility of every team member to greet every client as they arrive. If they’re busy with another client, a simple but genuine smile and quick “Hi” (with the client’s name if possible) is all it takes. This creates quite a positive impact on your clients, and sets the scene for an enjoyable visit to your salon.
  • Ensure that the client’s service provider has fully researched the client’s service and purchase history prior to her arrival, so she can discuss previous treatments and purchases to determine if improvements or changes are necessary. This line of conversation also opens up buying opportunities for the client.
  • Never skip the client consultation part of the service. This is important because it’s when the client gets to tell you want she really wants from her service. Not everyone wants the same thing every time they visit (even though this is often what they get). Life is full of changes, and with that comes changing needs also. Consultations don’t need to be formal and lengthy at every visit, but they should be included before every service is provided or every retail sale is made.
  • Make the client your sole focus while they’re having their treatment. There’s almost nothing more frustrating for a client than to have her treatment constantly disrupted by her therapist leaving the room to answer the phone or go to the reception. Whether it’s a haircut, a Brazilian wax, or a facial, the client has paid for your time and deserves your uninterrupted attention. You may need to introduce new strategies in your salon to accommodate this, but it’s something you must do if you’re to keep your clients satisfied.
  • Supply everything your clients need to have optimal comfort during their treatment. If your treatment rooms get a little chilly, then make sure the client is well covered and stays warm. Make sure she has a comfy chair to sit in when taking off shoes and jewellery. Provide a jewellery bowl so she knows her items are together and safe. Each treatment area needs to have a mirror on hand – you know what some treatments will do to client’s hair. All small things, but important to your client and her level of enjoyment.
  • Invite her back. Offer her a re-booking so she’s not disappointed in 4 or 6 weeks time when she needs to return, but can’t get an appointment to suit. Clients are no longer prepared to just wait and fit into your schedule. If they can’t get an appointment with your salon when they want it, there’s always another one to ring just down the road.

Revisit each of these areas in your salon to see where you can make simple changes that will impact on the quality of your clients’ experience.

 

Strategy #2

Stay in touch.
Do you receive local magazines and flyers at home? Well, so do your clients. And they’re chock full of advertisements from other salons that are trying to lure your clients away from you.

This means there’s a real need to maintain quality contact with your clients between their salon visits to ensure they stay up to date with your special offers, and of course, so they remain loyal to you.

Here are a few easy and inexpensive ways to do just that:

  • A quick follow up phone call, especially to a new client, lets her know that you care about her needs and not just her dollars. For a 5 minute investment of your time, your new client will feel valued and that’s important when it comes to client retention.
  • Treat your client to a card and salon voucher for her birthday. How many service providers that you deal with acknowledge your birthday? In fact, it’s pretty rare, and this is what makes it special in the eyes of your clients. A real card with a salon voucher included makes a big impact on how valued your clients feel.
  • Send a monthly e-newsletter to keep your clients up to date on new services, products, promotions, and even team members. Keep your newsletter short, visually appealing, easy to read and not all about sales pitches. Make it worth their while to read it, with monthly special offers that will appeal to them. If you really can’t manage it on your own, get some help.

 

Strategy #3

Deliver first class service and treatments.
This should go without saying, but sadly many salons disappoint their clients by delivering treatments and customer service that don’t match their price point.

Begin by taking an honest look at your current standards (this may be a little painful for some), identify where you could do better, and from there start to implement the necessary changes.

Here are a few ways to get started:

  • Google your salon name and look for reviews. Unhappy and disappointed clients are always the first to leave a review. These poor reviews hurt your business, so at the very least you should know what they are and learn a lesson from them.
  • Revisit any client complaints you’ve had in the past couple of years. Did you do anything about them at the time? Was there a lesson in the complaint you didn’t take action on, but could now?
    Simply think about your own past experiences in other salons. What was great (these are the ones you should emulate) and what was terrible (make sure your own salon is not guilty of any of these).
  • Ask your team members to share their past experiences at a team meeting, and get consensus on the changes everyone is prepared to make to improve your levels of service.
  • When it comes to delivering a better experience to your clients, one of the best tools you can use is a Secret Shopper. Secret Shoppers can provide you with invaluable information that you could never normally access, and they don’t have to cost a fortune. Offer to provide some free treatments to a friend or colleague who doesn’t normally visit your salon, in exchange for her Secret Shopper duties. The secret to the success of this strategy is to ensure they have a comprehensive questionnaire to complete and return to you after their visit.

Delivering first class service and treatments doesn’t happen by itself. Salons that enjoy high client retention rates have also developed first class team members through ongoing training.

Like any athlete who wants to enjoy peak performance, skills, and service, training needs to be a regular occurrence.

Some salon owners reject the idea of investing in training because inevitably team members move on, and naturally take that training with them. However, to quote Zig Ziglar, “The only thing worse than training employees and losing them, is to not train them and keep them”. How absolutely true!

Training doesn’t need to cost you a fortune. Usually, the salon owner is the most knowledgeable person on the team and can, therefore, run productive training sessions with their team.

Product suppliers will often agree to come to the salon to run training sessions with your team members. And if you’re lucky enough to have some very talented team members in your salon, organise for them to run some training sessions with other team members also.

Successful training is like anything else…you must plan for it. Create a training schedule for your salon so that your team members understand the importance of keeping their treatment and service skills up to date.

Well trained team members deliver better treatments and customer service, which in turn provides better value for your salon clients. Clients who receive great value from their salons, rarely look elsewhere to have their beauty needs met.

Whatever your budget, build in time for training.

Gaining a new client in your salon is wonderful, but keeping an existing one is even better.

Excellent firms don’t believe in excellence – only in constant improvement and constant change.
~ Tom Peters

  

It’s the Little Things That Can Matter the Most

It’s the Little Things That Can Matter the Most

I’ve just experienced six fabulous weeks touring part of the globe, and I’ve had some interesting customer service experiences.

Some places had fabulous surroundings and ordinary customer service, others had the reverse, and some managed to achieve top marks in both areas.

The one thing that really stood out, however, wasn’t the ‘place’ but the people. Times when people went out of their way to offer assistance – totally unexpectedly.

It reminded me that given everything else is good, what people really remember is other people and their actions – both good and bad.

This, of course, applies equally to your business.

Developing your team to deliver that exceptional service that clients simply don’t get elsewhere.

Implementing the things that only an owner/manager can.

All the little extra things that you can do to make your clients experience in your salon special are important, but not necessarily difficult or expensive, to provide.

Before I began writing this article, I’ve thought back over all my experiences in salons to what made them either great or totally disappointing, and I’ve made a ‘great’ and ‘not so great’ list to share with you.

 

My ‘great’ list…

I once visited a therapist who used to massage my feet and pop on warming booties during my facial. No matter how busy she was, she never skipped this little pampering step, and I loved it. I was very sad when she moved to a new location that was too far away for me to visit.

After she relocated, I went to a salon that always gave me a warm scented foot bath before my facial, during which time we had a casual catch-up where she asked about my current needs and concerns. Dimmed lights, candles, soft music, and a warm foot soak, and I was already totally enjoying my experience before my facial even began.

My current salon provides home-made biscuit bites with a cuppa. They are always delicious, and I look forward to that part of my visit. Just something small but special.

In the same salon, every therapist and stylist in the front area greet me by name and with a smile when I arrive. It feels great to be part of that salon family.

Another salon I visited provided all the little extras in the treatment room. Comfortable chairs, jewellery bowl, mirror, mineral makeup, comfortable treatment gowns and a cosy blanket to snuggle under during my treatment.

When I look back over my ‘great’ list, I really don’t see anything extraordinary or expensive. Rather, just a simple collection of things any salon can do to make their client’s experiences just that bit more memorable.

 

My “not so great” list…

One thing stands out above all the rest on my ‘not so great’ list. It’s when my therapist engages in a conversation with another team member about something totally irrelevant to me.

I find it so rude, and it makes me feel like I don’t matter one bit. This is definitely something that should be eliminated in your salon if you see it happening.

Second on my list is when the therapist talks all the way through my treatment. Especially when she is using my time to try to sell me something. There’s a time for selling and a time for treating the client, and they’re not the same time.

Let your clients enjoy the time they’ve paid for, and keep the sales pitch until later.

Finally, it bugs me a lot when I go to a new salon and they don’t bother to take my details or do a consultation. How do they expect to know what I want if they don’t ask me at least a few questions? And not taking my details kinda tells me that they don’t care if I come back or not. Some salons I’ve visited haven’t even bothered to find out my last name. Really?

If you want your clients to have a more memorable treatment in your salon, ask yourself today what you can do to make that happen. After all, it’s often the small things that can make the biggest impact.

 

Are Online Spa Bookings Your Friend or Foe?

Are Online Spa Bookings Your Friend or Foe?

As with most things in life, on-line booking systems have their upsides and downsides.

If you’re considering introducing an on-line booking system in the hope of simplifying things in your salon or spa, then it’s good to be first aware of how it may impact on your business, both positively and negatively.

But, let’s take a look at the positives first.

 

Client Convenience

Depending on the online booking system you choose to use, you’ll get different features included.

The systems I’ve looked at allow the client to book her appointment from your Facebook page as well as your website.  This sounds like a promising start!

There’s no doubt that this will be very convenient for many of your clients, as it allows them to book their appointments outside of your salon or spa hours.

This is a real plus for working women who can’t find time during the day for making personal appointments.

 

Reduced Spa No-shows

No-shows are rapidly becoming the bane of every salon owner’s life.

Unless clients are asked to prepay for their services, it means that you’re often left unable to refill that empty spot in your appointment book, and therefore you’ll be left out of pocket.

Many of the online booking systems allow you to request either full or partial payment when taking the booking, and this has to be a major deterrent for those clients who in the past, have opted to simply not show up for their appointment.

If you decide to ask for a substantial deposit or even full payment when the on-line booking is being made, it will mean that if the client decides not to show up, then instead of you being the one out of pocket, it will be the client.

 

Reduced Treatment Interruptions

Solo therapists, who work from home or in a small salon, can find it difficult to answer the phone whilst providing client services.

It’s not only frustrating for the therapist who has to constantly leave her client but can be very annoying for the client also.

And it’s especially irritating if the client is having a relaxing treatment that shouldn’t be riddled with interruptions.

The use of on-line bookings by your clients reduces the number of unwanted interruptions throughout the day, which is a bonus for both you and your clients.

So now we’ve looked at the positives of using an on-line booking system, let’s take a look at some of the negatives that might impact on your business.

 

Scheduling Time Gaps

Chunks of unused time in your appointment book costs you money – and lots of it.

This fact applies whether you use on-line bookings or regular bookings handled by salon staff.

It means you end up paying for unutilised employee time, as well as also losing potential revenue.

Let’s take a closer look at this scenario for an average salon with 3 therapists operating on 15 minute time allotments.

If there are 3 gaps of 15 minutes in each column for 5 days a week, then you have a total of 675 minutes (11.25 hrs) per week of wasted appointment time.

Multiply that by 50 weeks and you have 562.5 hours of wasted time over a year.

At $25 per hour plus super, that equates to $15,468.75 in wages paid out for nothing in return.

But that’s just half the equation.

What about lost revenue?

Given that no salon is booked out 100% of the time, let’s just work on 80% instead.

That means that 450 hours (80% of 562.5 hrs) @ a reasonable $100 per hour in expected sales, results in lost revenue of $45,000.

Together, these two losses total up to a staggering $60,468.75 per year.

I think you’ll agree that this huge amount of lost revenue isn’t something you’d want to see happen in your salon.

Those little gaps scattered all over your appointment book really can have a huge impact on your revenue potential.

But what has this good to do with on-line bookings?

Well, if your on-line booking system simply allows your clients to book into whichever time-slot they want, then you have no control over those unwanted but expensive gaps that will definitely occur.

The solution?

All online bookings would need to be reviewed regularly, and those bookings that need to be moved to remove a gap will require a telephone call to the client to adjust her appointment time accordingly.

 

No Up-selling Opportunity

When you personally interact with your clients during the appointment taking process, you have lots of opportunities to up-sell to them.  This isn’t possible when the clients book in their own treatments.

Up-selling at the time of booking has many advantages.

Not only does it allow you to capture that elusive $20 extra (or more) per client that will make a big impact on your revenue, but it also means that you’ll be able to allow the additional time required for that extra 1 or 2 services required by some clients.

It was the policy in my salon that as the staff member was taking the client booking, she would also review the client’s treatment history to see what other services she’d had in the past (and may want to have again).

This was actually a real life-saver for us on many occasions, because it allowed us to book the client in for other services she hadn’t thought to mention, but still expected to receive during her appointment.

As a salon or spa owner, you’ll already appreciate how difficult it is when your clients ask for extra services that you haven’t allowed time for.

You’re caught between wanting to make your current client happy (and get the extra money) by giving her what she wants and keeping your next client waiting for her appointment.

Not a good choice to have to make, as one of your clients is going to be either disappointed or annoyed.

 

Client Aversion

This will only be an issue if you require all of your bookings to be made on-line.

Clients can be hesitant to make a booking until they’ve had a chance to speak to a real person – especially if they’re new to your salon or spa.

An automated booking system can’t assuage their fears or answer their questions, and so they might simply decide to go elsewhere so that they can interact with a real person.

Also, some clients will object to being asked to pay in advance for their services, and while it’s generally not compulsory to take a payment or deposit using your on-line booking system, if you don’t, then you won’t have addressed the issue of no-shows.

There you have it.

On-line bookings can be a real blessing for some salons by minimising annoying interruptions, as well as securing deposits for appointments.

But before you jump in and commit completely to only on-line bookings, consider both the positive and negative aspects, do your research, and then you can decide what’s going to be right for your spa.

How To Stay Sane And In Control Around Thorny Clients

How To Stay Sane And In Control Around Thorny Clients

We’ve all had them.

Those clients that drive you crazy, because they either show up late, don’t show at all or complain about every treatment they receive.

Do you really want to keep them? Or more importantly, do you really need to keep them?

Unfortunately, there’s so simple answer to that question. The fact is that some clients are worth a bit of extra trouble. These are the ones who spend heartily in your salon on a regular basis. Some others can have you pulling your hair out but just aren’t worth the stress.

So before you decide on your course of action (whether you keep a client or fire them), you need to consider how valuable they are to your salon, and whether it would be worthwhile to develop a few coping mechanisms to save the relationship.

 

Problem: The Late Client.

This client is late for everything. She’ll probably even be late to her own funeral. She is disorganised, and never leaves enough leeway to make sure she gets anywhere on time.

Solution: Tell her that her appointment is 15 mins before it actually is. This way, when she comes rushing through your door, puffing and panting and telling you how sorry she is to be late, you can smile serenely to yourself knowing she is actually right on time. Adjust the time frame to suit your individual late arrivers.

Problem: The No-show Client.

The regular no-show client will make you angry, especially if you’ve turned work away that you could have accepted had she cancelled in advance. These clients often believe that they’ve done you a huge favour; giving you time to put your feet up and have a coffee break. They have no idea about the carnage they’re creating, and simply expect to float back into your salon when they want another booking.

Solution: This client needs to be controlled. You must teach all of your clients how you expect to be treated. When a client simply doesn’t show for her appointment, phone her. If she doesn’t answer, then send a text. She must realise that you’ve noticed her no-show. Remind her of your no-show policy (you do have one, don’t you) and the consequences of the no-show. If she is a regular no-shower, refuse to accept anything but a pre-paid appointment in the future. She’ll probably complain, but don’t worry too much about it. She’ll either pay you in advance or go to another salon and treat them with the same disrespect she’s dished out to you.

Problem: The Constant Complainer.

We all complain about something now and then, but there’s always the odd client who complains about everything, all the time.

The wax is too hot, the air conditioning is too cold, the salon smells funny, and on it goes. There’s just no making this lady happy, no matter what.

Solution: Clients like this have some personal issues. Maybe this is their only chance to be the dominant person, and so they take it out on you. The best and easiest way to deal with this client is to acknowledge what she says, make some kind of effort to ‘fix the problem’, and learn not to take it personally. Because it really isn’t directed at you at all.

The simple fact that she keeps returning means that she is actually happy with your salon and her treatments, so just keep smiling and taking her payments.

And that’s it. You don’t have to accept bad behaviour from your clients. Train them to treat you with the respect you know you deserve.